When I met my husband it was like the breath came out of my lungs. You know the feeling, right? Where the pitter-patter of your heart comes into your throat? That just the mention of his name... It is a wonderful feeling that still happens after 20 years together. So remember the breathlessness. Remember the reason. Remember it all because when the craziness happens? Like planning for a wedding? It is about you two. Focus on that.